This reminds me of the blog that introduced me to estranged parents, and the takeaway I've always had is that as far as they're concerned, that is the full story. "My child took actions that made me, the protagonist of reality, feel bad, how could this have happened" issendai.com/psychology/e...

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Want to bet she was 'mildly rude' after several years of extremely offensive, several attempts at boundaries and a deadly serious last warning?

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These folks are the dictionary definition of unreliable narrators - they minimize and gloss over major transgressions on their part. This article in particular is giving "missing missing reasons". issendai.com/psychology/e...

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Yes! I also thought of Issendai‘s missing reasons and the more general “criticism avoidance”

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if my kids cut me off for what I thought was something little and I wanted to repair it, one thing I would not do is write about it publicly. That right there is some kind of tell

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