I think I just fundamentally believe people are what they do. There is no inherently good or bad person, born or made. Our actions do not leave moral stains on our souls. We must have the agency to stop causing harm. To repair what we can. And to be better people. And I want that for everyone.

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any time I see victims speak up I feel glad but at the same time I feel crushed, because I want to feel empowered to speak up about my own experiences, but for years I've kept feeling like I couldn't and had to keep staying quiet and enduring various behaviors that affected me over and over

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this community has honestly destroyed me mentally in so many ways I'm still trying to recover from and people largely take zero accountability for anything they do, only deflect and use how it's affected me to point and act like I'm crazy. it's so fucking insulting and demeaning

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and times I tried to connect with other people who went through the same thing to actually process it, hoping they would understand, I was told "I'm making their trauma about me" and other shit, as if I wasn't looking for support from those I was close to. genuinely what the fuck

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someone tried telling me at one point it wasn't grooming because it "didn't have intent to groom" when I don't know what else you call "person repeatedly normalizing minors to adult sexual interactions and engaging with them" other than grooming. like I felt so fucking used

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