The Mel Jar

The Mel Jar

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An Ashkenazi-Californian hysteric proudly in the phallic stage of psychosexual/psychotherapist development. A fun enough person. Skeets for the jouissance. NOT Mel Klein.

👤 Joined on 06 September 2023

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They are too unhealed and weak to look at their feelings about adoption so we all get shit "science" whoopdy doo 🫠

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It's even more bizarre given that psychoanalytic theory actually places so much emphasis on infant psychic life! Even if we don't consciously remember, theory assumes impact on later development.

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go loud
29 December 2025 21:07

I have read what feels like *endless* theory about how very early childhood experiences that we are too young to remember impact us (which I find compelling!). to have the trauma of infant removal from mother dismissed like this is bizarre and nonsensical to me.

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Abbi
29 December 2025 21:07

Exactly!! one would think itd be an especially relevant/fruitful thing to explore..

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It also seems oddly negating of the role of fantasy in psychic development. Like even without an “actual” attachment to a birth parent, a person can still have a psychic attachment that’s real and important. Isn’t that the sort of thinking that psychoanalysis is known for?

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