defendsurvivors.bsky.social
✨ Activist for abuse/trauma survivors Fierce advocate & proud mom | Adoptee | Blog https://open.substack.com/pub/defendsurvivors 🛍️ Worthy & Wonderful Shop https://worthywonderfulshop.etsy.com
👤 Joined on 20 January 2025
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@defendsurvivors.bsky.socialBefore death: she-who-raised-me let me know they Did know who my birth mother was as they had interviewed her, and had paid for her room, board and medical care before I was born he-who-raised-me let me know of an even bigger secret ***** they lied to me for their own good 🥚
Show PostMothers coerced/forced into adoption are survivors of traumatic births, child loss, missing child, and often medical trauma, in addition to multiple levels of emotional, physical, and psychological trauma. This is a women’s rights issue that is never even acknowledged. #adoption #womensrights
Show Post"Lying to a child doesn’t protect the child. It protects the people lying. Lying to a person is not love. Concealing a person’s identity is abuse — state sanctioned." 🥚
Show Post" When there’s institutional betrayal, things get worse; it adds harm. . People, if they get upset at all, talk about how the institutions fail to respond well afterward. And that’s all important and meaningful. But I think it’s even a bigger deal that they fail to prevent this from occurring."
Show PostHere's a version without a paywall: "California adoptees continue push in Legislature for original birth certificates" 🥚 www.union-bulletin.com/news/nationa...
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