Like, the world is full of toxic people who believe (a) "other people control my feelings and must fix them when I am upset" and (b) "saying 'no' to me makes you a bad person," but those two beliefs are basically constitutive of Dominant Masculinity. Look at who the President is, for fuck's sake.

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Straight Man Friend Groups, being comprised of people who have never been trained to manage or fix even one of their own emotions in their entire lives, are some of the most dramatic spaces I have ever been. And I spent a lot of time on 2010s Social Justice Tumblr. TUMBLR!!

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Someday the tale of the early-mid-'00s Craigslist music discussion forum will be told. Okay, probably not. But @emilystjams.bsky.social, if you want to tell it it's there for the taking. @stephenthen.bsky.social will back me up.

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I had a period of my life where I followed every dog community on Facebook. one day I learned a bit about how everywhere humans go, there they are, cos there was a post on the Pembroke Welsh Corgi page I think where the mods were begging people in arguments to please cool it with the death threats

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