It is imperfect, dealt with controversies, had bad actors in charge at times — but it tries, and always has tried. it listens, it makes changes, it tries to do better. It works to serve the community. It can be messy but it’s human and the site staff cares

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People doing “whataboutism” over FA but sorry it’s the best we got and the best it will get. Every alternative that has tried to be a more “morally pure” alternative went down in flames trying to appease everyone‘s concept of morally ok porn. It has survived so long for a reason

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Yes every woman has been harassed, many assaulted. But every woman has also experienced invisible loss from moments she avoided harassment. She felt a space becoming unsafe, so she left, while men stayed on. And in leaving, she lost: opportunities, experiences, learning, promotions, even simply fun.

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this really is the meat of my beef with AI. it encourages this stifling isolationism. don’t like it.

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This story of Babel is bullshit because every construction site in chicago has guys who only speak polish, guys who only speak spanish, and guys who only speak English, and they can still finish the building

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