That is seeming like a sensible approach to me *Estel observes thoughtfully*At least if one is knowing how to see these signs - or make them, for that matter *nods* In the end, decisions are usually things we have to make for ourselves, but I do thank you very much for talking with me about things

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*they pause, recalling some couples they have observed* One cannot -always- know how another is feeling about them, regardless of what those feelings may be. Does one simply not speak out, or does one take the chance that the other person has also been trying to guess what they are feeling?

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What about you? *with friendly curiosity* That is, if you do not mind speaking of such things - do you have a preference between the two options? One should, of course, be sure of one's own feelings before speaking, but it seems to me that one cannot... +

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*they pause, and think, and add* I suppose that question also goes for when there are sudden feelings - as opposed to beginning at friendship, doesn't it?

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And if one is feeling that way about someone, and they are wanting to do something about it, because people are not always - I think? - wanting to. Do they try to find out if the person they feel this way about, feels the same way about them? +

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