I am wracked with anxiety about house stuff but I keep running the scenarios in my head and it’s all fine (unless the house unexpectedly turns into a money pit) so I think it’s just the uncertainty of like “which scenario will this be?” freaking me out, not that any of them are unworkable.

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I have long described my job as “software archeologist”! No one hires me just to tell me how great their code is and how awesome things are going 🤣

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I keep thinking of the people I used to do youth ministry work with who loved their guns and the head of the Oregon Catholic Republicans who tried to get me fired because me being gay made me a danger to children and I’m just like …… is THIS enough?? can you see it now? or is there just no hope

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everytime i use the phrase "just friends" as opposed to dating i feel a little bad bc i don't want to downplay the value, importance, or depth of friendship but also if i say "friends or lovers" instead, it implies that lovers aren't also friends. and they are. so ... language, man

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He is OBVIOUSLY dark haired. I’ve never met such a dark haired man in my life. Bingley is blonde or red headed, preferably with curls.

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