with how affectionate some of our friendships are (or appear to be?), it also makes me wonder what romance has, what it entails, when you're asexual

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for the record, I'm not looking. Probably won't be for a long while. and despite some of the girls' crushes, I'll insist they also not be. we need an answer to the key question before that can safely happen.

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🦊 a friend recently challenged me to ask myself what i actually want in a partner. I'm not sure yet, beyond "is good to the girls, doesn't scare them or make them sad or mad or in flashbacks all the time" My faith in myself is still shaken. Of if I choose or approve of someone who'll be next ex.

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🦊 yeah talking in headspace is not always talking to other alters, sometimes it is just, talking to yourself

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☁️ we're workin' on our self-esteem difficulties lately. and we appreciate a lot the friends who've asked us if we're okay, through this difficult time. (and snuggly friends awawaaaaa =w=)

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