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back to try again later, taking it a little bit at a time. I also have only made it one page in and went "I'm gonna need to come back to this later" but I've been recommended "a survivor's guide to sex" idk how relevant all that is for you, but hopefully you find some part helpful.
Show Postpush through some discomfort, but there's a line. I find if I just try again later that's better than trying to force it. I also recommend the book "complex ptsd: from surviving to thriving" by pete walker. It's got some flaws in the writing and framing but there's a lot of good tools in it. It
Show Postpermission to stop and cry, to stop and leave, whether its during activity with others, with myself, or during just the grounding and trying to settle in. Pushing through to try to become grounded past a certain point destroys my trust in myself and thus my sense of safety. It is important to
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My personal experience was realizing I was just very demi. I was initially capable physically of being intimate or sexual w. many folks I wasn't close to, but only through it through force of intense masking, and eventually I just couldn't do that anymore either. Now, late 30s, I need the closeness.
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I wish I could offer something more tangible, but it's a really hard thing to navigate. You're not alone struggling with this, and you'll definitely get there <333
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