I was married to a unicorn. When he passed, I dated ONCE. Never again. I'm content to be alone. When my kitchen is trashed, when my laundry needs doing, it's MY mess and MY job. I'm OK with that.

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The way you're not all men-ning is the same way I have at times not-all-white-womened or not-all-Christianed. I was rebuffed and the offended parties were correct to do so. My response eventually was to humble myself in realizing it wasn't about me so I didn't need to protest.

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My favourite feminist take on marriage - 'It starts when you sink in his arms and ends with your arms in his sink'

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I’m 80. When I was young, ANY man - ugly, evil, stupid or mean, could find a woman to marry and serve him. We were totally, legally, dependent. Those days are over.

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And nonconsensual access to sex on demand. Remember: nonconsensual sex happens in marriages and partnerships. Signing a marriage license isn't blanket consent (patriarchy says it is though)

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