the7wivesofRebekahHarkness⸆⸉ 🥨

the7wivesofrh.bsky.social

18 October 2026 02:15

Blank Space sound check?????

Tess

invisiblethemes.bsky.social

16 October 2026 20:33

Is going to act a mirrorball to my psyche, our brains are wired to continue to project our past onto our present. And my scepticism of Taylor & continued practice of seeing her as a flawed human who pisses me off sometimes feels like an active way of making sure I’m not falling back into old

Tess

invisiblethemes.bsky.social

16 October 2026 20:33

And I genuinely think that theres still a very real possibility that I’m doing that with Taylor. I’m still here, aren’t I? I think that always has to be a real possibility when I’m assessing my connection with people whose actions don’t match my idea of them. And I’m also aware that everyone in life

Tess

invisiblethemes.bsky.social

16 October 2026 20:33

Therapy (or through other means) knows that assuming the best intentions was a behaviour they had to unlearn in order to heal. I was in a 5 year long relationship for 3 years longer than I should’ve been because I have such a dogged, over-active ability to see the best in people. And they know it.

Tess

invisiblethemes.bsky.social

16 October 2026 20:32

Giving people in power the benefit of the doubt, without transparency, feels dangerous to my nervous system. And, on a personal level, it’s how I’ve ended up in situations where I’ve been taken advantage of and manipulated. Any child of an emotionally immature parent who has processed things in