like i totally get it one personally does not want to engage in X or Z thing. duh. there’s plenty of shit i am not into and don’t understand. that said, another human being’s imagination? that’s their fucking house. i don’t go into someone else’s house and demand they rearrange the place for me.

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it may be tempting to add exceptions here, e.g. “oh but noncon on the other hand…..” but that’s exactly where the slippery slope begins. the fact of the matter is, if it’s just in someone’s imagination/fiction? i don’t really give a fuck. practically speaking, it does not exist for me or you.

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anything to do with sex gets additionally scrutinized. most of us seem well aware enough that playing a violent video game doesn’t correlate to a violent personality. when sex enters the picture, however, suddenly a person is solely defined by that. at what point is having a kink a thoughtcrime?

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the assumption that someone’s taste in fiction speaks about their character is really strange but unfortunately common these days. i believe our imaginations are much broader than our intentions. what we choose to engage with in our imaginations doesn’t correlate with what choices we’d make IRL.

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cooking stuff up 👩🏻‍🍳

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