If it helps, here's my take on it as someone who has it as a staple kink: bsky.app/profile/sics...

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Crude is one angle to look at it, it's like, pure *Id* for me, comfort and pleasure overriding rigidity and social norms, like the equivalent of a victorian woman in an expensive gown splitting her bodice with a dagger and letting her bosom joyfully flop out with a relieved sigh.

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That's wonderful. There's something so so satisfying about interacting with another body at a core level, touch is such an important sensation. From hugs to sensual massage to sex, we're wired to embrace our mutual warmth.

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Big on the sensory indulgence. There's nothing like gripping a big fat belly and kneading it. The slob stuff and all the other stuff I'm into is the cherry on top.

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I mean I think that's the true answer, fetishes kind of just -are-. I think the answer is different from person to person too. I guess all kinks can boil down to very core stuff like power dynamics, shame and nonconformity, comfort and sensory indulgence, etc.

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