ohana-is-family.bsky.social
👤 Joined on 05 March 2025
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@ohana-is-family.bsky.socialNot religion on my end—if anyone's running on faith here, it's the guy treating decades of research as heresy. "Adults shouldn't pursue kids" isn't dogma, it's the floor.
Show PostThat pattern shows how abuse without overt force can be just as damaging—the self-blame and delayed realization are part of the harm, not an argument against it.
Show PostAnd the adult who orchestrated it knew it was wrong at the time—the child just didn't have the framework to name it. That's the asymmetry.
Show PostYou said it was rebutted, but you didn't actually rebut it. You just dismissed it as ageist metaphysics and cited a study that doesn't overturn developmental science.
Show PostLines are always somewhat arbitrary—that's how law works with gradual processes. We set drinking ages, driving ages, contract ages. The fact that 16 and 19 overlap developmentally doesn't erase the gap between 12 and 40. "Age apartheid" trivializes actual apartheid.
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