shannongibney.bsky.social
Author of The Girl I Am, Was, and Never Will Be; We Miss You, GF; Where We Come From (co-author) + others. Printz Honor, Carter G. Woodson + 3 MN Book Awards. Also: Adoptee, Blerd, Mama, Prof, Runner, Traveler, working w/you against authoritarianism.
👤 Joined on 26 November 2024
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@shannongibney.bsky.socialthere is a piece to be written about this "no contact" as a very specific kind of moral panic about status, intergenerational mobility, and maybe dementia. because it is wild how much this no contact thing riles up older people.
Show PostFighting for their lives and they are worried about civility.
Show PostMy conservative in-laws are less tight-fisted but it's more "we sacrificed a lot of our lives for all this money specifically so we could spend it on our kids & grandkids." In both instances, there's a definite undercurrent of worry abt what they're leaving behind for us to deal with, society-wise.
Show PostIt’s been long enough that I can talk about this vaguely. A family friend refused cancer treatment. He didn’t want medical costs to drain his retirement. He was obsessed with taking care of his wife and two kids. He died less than 6 months after telling us that. Few things radicalized me more.
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