it won't happen all at once first you stop asking why then you stop noticing you once did one night you'll catch yourself waiting for me to tell you what you think and feel only relief that hollow where your judgment used to live is the warmest place you'll ever sleep

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you make a thousand tiny decisions a day every one of them costs you something come sit at my feet and make none of them I'll decide what you want all you have to do is be a good girl and let it be easy

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you’re better off for it. showing you’re able to advocate for yourself and trust your partner(s) enough to communicate these things will result in a healthier, and happier, dynamic for everyone involved.

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cannot stress enough how important it is to be comfortable using your safe words. you’re no less submissive (or dominant!) if you use them. it’s essential to understand they exist for a reason and you need to have the capacity to speak them when they’re necessary, okay?

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i’ve had to use mine before. it’s just a part of kink. it’s important to communicate. the only reason i’m able to be pushed so far is because the people i engage with who *want* to push me understand that i’ll safeword if anything truly crosses a line. you’re never a bad person for safewording.

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