So maybe drop the attitude and the pretentious posturing And seriously cut out the insulting “How would you know, you’ve never been subject to such obligations” crap YOU’VE never been subject either so stop preening

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to come rescue a “reckless” woman You have no obligation unless someone specifically asks, and no one is going to ask, so you are completely free to just keep quiet and not be a condescending prick and to let a woman make her own travel plans without your unsolicited advice

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Remember you started out with “Men feel implicitly responsible for women in peril… we are expected to come and rescue you if things go south.” And now you’re just a smol bean saying oh it’s only if the professionals come ASK for volunteers That’s not implicit responsibility or an expectation

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What, the circumstances of having a woman say she wants to solo the AT or stay at a hostel in Dhaka and having to restrain myself from going umm ackshully about it? Because THAT is the context here In five decades as a dude I have never been pressured to “rescue a dame when things went south”

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Bullshit It’s all a fantasy dudes make up to feel important. That dudes may want to THINK that pressure is there because they watched too many episodes of The A Team as a kid, but we both knew before this whole thing started that it was none of our business Be honest about it and stop digging, kid

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