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Consent is sexy, why do people think bsdm is popular, just because they think you can beat your partner with a whip? Because from the smut I've read, it's more of making basic rules and safewords so everyone's limits are respected.
Show PostConsent shouldnt even be the line, I'd say it should be enthusiastic consent.
Show PostExactly. Enthusiastic participation and being part of it. Not having it done to them.
Show PostConsent, however critical, is still a low bar. Mutual enthusiasm seems more appropriate.
Show PostI say that as a gay man who has at points on my life had to navigate "If this other guy isn't really truly into this I might face violence" it doesn't take thinking 10 times to figure out actual consent. It's really not that hard.
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