There will always be people in kink spaces who are bad actors, or who hurt people by accident because they don’t know the rules or how to play the game, or push a boundary intentional or not. But they are on both sides. Turn that energy towards correcting sources rather than entire innocent groups.

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Maybe I'm being too protective. But. I see you, I respect you, I love you a lot. You have me in your corner, ok?

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I really love my submissive friends. I respect you all so so much. You do so much. I’m sorry people treat you this way. And yes I know Dommes get it too, I’ve gotten weird people up my ass. But people are really quick to defend Dommes over subs and treat their boundaries as more important.

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fuck you we are not stuffing ourselves back into easily crushed boxes and beginning power structure war I will firebomb your residence

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if I see you making a post decrying submissives or dominants writ large as a monolith I'm going to air out your house I swear to god

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