naomipaulporu.bsky.social
I'm a gamer who also happens to be a bigender crossdresser. Trust me. The order of this matters. 🤷♀️
👤 Joined on 12 December 2023
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@naomipaulporu.bsky.socialHate is easy. Acceptance is hard. But do you want be hated? Or accepted? You get what you give. Have a picture of a cassowary.
Show PostGood reason to apologize: Because you realize you were wrong and you're sorry. Terrible reasons to apologize: To shut down a conversation. To get out of trouble. To show you're the "bigger person". To get an outcome you want. For "optics". Apologies are not about control.
Show PostI've had people give me this excuse too. See also: "I can't use correct pronouns. I'm autistic. It doesn't make sense to me. It's ableist."
Show PostAn apology is the beginning of a conversation, not the end, and no one is required to accept your apology.
Show PostMental health affirmation from video games: Get away from the people who keep hitting you when you're trying to heal.
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