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something you learn about abusive people is that they see control and power as a zero-sum game. resisting their right to control & punish is "limiting their agency" (over you). contradicting them is "authoritarian." transmisogynists love this bc they can treat any resistance as "male entitlement"

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this is abusive by the way. when you do this, you are telling transfems they must make themselves smaller, more compliant, take up less space, not claim ANY epistemic legitimacy (i.e., never contradict you), in order to count as "not acting like MEN." it is a form of coercive control.

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Been seeing more trans folks use TERF talking points like saying “trans women need to unlearn male socialization” or “while it’s not a slur, we should be understanding why some women would be offended by the word cis because young tumblr transes use it as an insult and ruined it.” Kinda fucked.

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