Thank you. I’ve missed out on too many friendships or social opportunities I’ve wanted to have with people because I was having my bandwidth stolen and I’m just done letting that happen. I deserve better and the people I’m still lucky enough to have around deserve better from me.

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I’m really proud of myself. For the first time in my life I hard confronted a maternal family member about their bullshit. I think it’s only hitting me how significant that is. I’m the first one who stood up and said no more. I initiated no contact.

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With a lot of my maternal family members I’ve been soft NC for years. They don’t know my phone number or address and I like to keep it that way. I’ll be civil at gatherings but I never really told them I’m done and the reason is their behavior over the years. It’s the first time I’ve ever done it.

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Abdul El-Sayed understands something I figured out about arguments belatedly in life: The best way to win a fight with a fascist troll is to ask, very earnestly, "What are you hoping to gain from this interaction? What is your ideal outcome here? What do you actually want, in life?"

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power restore eta now midnight 😭

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