something you learn about abusive people is that they see control and power as a zero-sum game. resisting their right to control & punish is "limiting their agency" (over you). contradicting them is "authoritarian." transmisogynists love this bc they can treat any resistance as "male entitlement"

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this is abusive by the way. when you do this, you are telling transfems they must make themselves smaller, more compliant, take up less space, not claim ANY epistemic legitimacy (i.e., never contradict you), in order to count as "not acting like MEN." it is a form of coercive control.

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she happily fell asleep during free roam :)

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how could you forget the follow-up to this?

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"Ballerina Aesha Ash wandering around inner city Rochester breaking the stereotypes about women of color and to inspire young kids."

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