You will be criticized whatever you do. Do what you think is right.

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Spend time with people. Not just out, or in structured settings. 🏘In their homes. With their pets, partners, children, families. Care for one another—& the pets, partners, families. Mutually, & not transactionally. Break bread together. Navigate conflict together. Create, Grieve, & Dream together.

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This is one of my very favorite kinds of songs, & one of my favorite songs generally. One time a friend read me all the way out loud by telling people that one of my most prominent music tastes is, "deeply sad girls who don't sound sad unless you actually listen." This will always be true.

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The fact that you've left a trail of other trans women in your wake who you abandoned when they needed the emotional support that you constantly say you are good for might be another clue about why no one likes you.

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Maybe if you didnt have semi regular crashouts in public about how other lesbians are so so meanies you wouldnt be a social pariah.

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