You have this one life. It would suck to waste it being someone you're not. And this basic bitch binary white girl is so lucky to be in community with you. I love you so much.

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If you don't conform to modern beauty standards, GOOD FOR YOU. Those sentiments are racist and enbyphobic. The only person who gets to decide who you are and what your gender looks like is YOU. BE WHO YOU ARE, whatever that looks like, without apology.

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Never bow to someone else's comfort. Their argument is that if we just conform enough, pretend to be cis enough, maybe we'll get our rights. But here's the thing: your life is now. Live your life RIGHT NOW. So if you want to pass, make sure it's for YOU. If you don't, you don't have to.

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to prioritize passing over all else. Some of that pressure might even come from people within our own community. I beseech you: DON'T LISTEN TO THEM. Your journey belongs to you and no one else. Is there a safety calculation in passing? Absolutely. But it's YOUR safety, not theirs.

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A message for my fellow trans folks, from *gulp* someone who's been around the block a time or two: As anti-trans sentiments accelerate, there will be pressure on you to blend in more, to adhere to the prevailing white cisheteronormative beauty standards of society,

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