If you've only got two bucks, buy this book.

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And this is just me. I happen to work in environments where I come into contact with a lot of people, yes, but every disabled person I have ever met has a collection of this sort of story. Try not being a nosy pest, abled people.

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I have been asked how I use the bathroom. I have been asked for advice to give disabled people in their lives—complete fucking strangers! I have been shouted at for not answering questions, or correcting kids when they say something rude they obviously heard from their ignorant parents.

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That also doesn’t mean you should expect candor from everyone, and it doesn’t mean you should go up to complete fucking strangers and ask personal questions. I have had people I am in the middle of helping at work notice my wedding ring and ask “how does THAT work?”

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Sometimes I choose to share what goes on in my life/my family’s life/my work, etc, because I want to reduce the ambient ignorance we all stew in to everyone’s detriment. That’s my prerogative, and because I share one thing doesn’t mean I owe anyone anything else, or everyone something I said once.

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