In a fit of perimenopausal hot flash, I went and chopped off another few inches of my hair. Feels better! I'm slowly working my way toward a loose wavy very long pixie cut. I think?

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There is so much resentment that exists between men and women in "traditional" relationship norms (that were invented by ads in the 1950s), simultaneously existing with demands that the other uphold their end of the bargain Trans women are often an outlet to vent abt the worst on each side

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One of the reasons transphobia is just an easy play for so many americans is because trans women represent an object onto which straight people can place all of their resentment about gender & relationship scripts.

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a little girl came up to me and said "you look like the real Snow White!" and another lady asked if this was my real hair

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One time someone asked me “who I was without the struggle,” and I just sighed. Ok bud, I would probably be less insufferable but we don’t live in that world, do we

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