when people are litigated for having safe sexual fantasies, they instead turn to fantasies of power. sexual shame animates actual abuse. this isn't about safety, it's about removing pleasure, desire, and fantasy from our culture and replacing it with sex as a deliberate tool of violence.

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these draconian, prescriptive laws do nothing to protect sex workers or the general public. instead they criminalize safe practices as a tool of panopticon, policing people's inner thoughts. like the anti-sodomy laws in the united states, the end goal is promoting sex acts that benefit fascism.

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for years, bdsm practitioners have independently worked to inform the general public on proper breathplay. but the stigmatization of sex as a whole has lead to this spiraling ouroboros — the more we criminalize depictions of safe sex, the more ashamed people get, the more unsafe their practices.

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Sans cette réflexion profonde on ca se fragiliser plus encore face à la montée du fascisme. Pratiquer un espece de virilisme politique dominateur en permanence. S'enfoncer dans la folie du rapport conflictuel avec nous mêmes, avec les jeunes. S'enfermer dans des logiques de pouvoir plus violent.

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C'est faux de dire que ça résoudrait tout de se regarder en face. Des democraties plus mâtures sur ces points, moins imperiales etc restent par ailleurs traversées de racisme, malades du pouvoir supreme etc. Mais. Mais. Sans ce travail on va s'enfoncer dans la fange.

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